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Rachel 10 Things to know before dating the Female Paramedic You nailed it lady!I'm a Paramedic and I've recently married my husband who's also a Paramedic.Tread lightly.Â We work in a manâ€™s world and she has had to adapt accordingly.Â You remember the tom-boy you loved as a kid? Â We spend every day proving how tough, how competent, how determined, how capable and how in control we can be. – Youâ€™ve heard the terms, Type A, Controlling and OCD? Â Weâ€™re one big tri-pack.Â Should you at any point make an attempt to tell her â€œthis is how itâ€™s going to beâ€ – peace be with you. However, If you do fit any of the above criteria, they youâ€™ve found the right gal. Â The girl who will answer your text, call or IM the moment you send it? Youâ€™re gonna need an iron stomach – If you want to be the rock that she can lean on, youâ€™ll have to be able to listen to the details of her calls as she mentally re-lives those moments, playing them back, checking herself, questioning herself, critiquing herself.Â Donâ€™t interject, donâ€™t try to fix anything, just listen – and donâ€™t vomit. Donâ€™t try to change her -Â Â We often hear men talk about women trying to change them.Â Well, this is a big issue with the female first responder.Â Men are very attracted to the strong, confident, independent women of this field, until they get deeper into the relationship.The sheer thought of doing something perceived as a â€œman taskâ€ for us can quickly get you thrown in the proverbial dog house – which if challenged she can also build. We have guy friends – LOTS of themÂ – We live with them, eat with them, sleep in the same house as them, we have their back and they have ours.Â We are a team and a family.Â They are our brothers, partners, fathers and best friends.Â We laugh, cry and experience mind blowing things together.Â Youâ€™re gonna have to be secure and trusting or the relationship isnâ€™t going to make it past the next 24 hour shift. Â Sorry, wrong chica.Â You might not get a reply for hours or an entire day.Â If the calls are coming back to back, there is a priority system we have in place – Pee, Eat, Chart, Pee again then maybe youâ€™ll get a short response.Â Donâ€™t read into it, it will only work against you.Â Donâ€™t question it as she will see you as needy. It seems there is this pivotal point in most relationships where suddenly the guy wants the girl to become well, more of a â€œgirl.â€ Â If at some point you anticipate she will transition to the submissive/subservient type, youâ€™re in for an uphill battle – again, peace be with you!Pressure is part of the territory that comes with being a policeman or policewoman, nurse, doctor, paramedic or fireman.Other dating sites such as Matchmaker can offer potential to meet police officers, since profiles typically include information about the person's career.That's why Uniform Dating is here, bringing together men and women in uniform, and those who admire them, and making their love lives easier.The reason for this is that a policewoman, firefighter, nurse or paramedic etc may want to date somebody who is not in any of the the services.
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9.Â â€œOne time at band campâ€ -Â When in our â€œpackâ€ whether around a camp fire or at your favorite 5-star restaurant be prepared to witness â€œThe medic story challenge.â€Â You may feel as though youâ€™ve heard one of the most awful stories ever, only to have the next medic pipe in and one-up the last.Â Now be prepared to challenge your cardiac sphincterâ€™s ability to contain your food as you listen to stories most would consider inappropriate at the tableâ€¦Â â€œOne time I had this callâ€¦â€, â€œwe responded to a guy who was drunk andâ€¦.â€, â€œI took care of this gal whoâ€¦.â€ You may find yourself, and other patrons around you wondering how a group can be so twisted that they can (in much detail) describe unthinkable traumas, oozing body fluids and unimaginable situations while indulging in a heaping plate of pasta with extra cheese and thick chunky sauce – some even associating the look of their food to something theyâ€™ve had to clean up. Partners for life -Â Â As the saying goes:Â Donâ€™t walk in front of me, I may not follow.
Donâ€™t walk behind me, I may not lead.Â Just walk beside me and be my friend.Â We live in a world where partners and crews – much like pack animals will die to protect each other.Â There is a deep loyalty and bond derived from the unique situations and challenges we share with our partners and crew.Â A day at the office for us has no rules.Â At any point in our day we have a decent chance of being in a life altering situation, a good chance we will be assaulted, a very good chance we will look in the eyes of someone as they take their last breath.Â We understand life is short and take a very close and personal bond to those we allow in our emotional circle.
We have worked as partners, so we know each other well. In 9 years being together he maybe mentioned 5 cases. The dynamics of being in relationship with another tough person/person working in the same field is…
There is a lot of promiscuity in EMS - we have both been tested but never failed each other. 2016-08-01 Anna 10 Things to know before dating the Female Paramedic Hi, I'm a volunteer EMT and a first responder.