Is real still dating doll
But you don’t have to get married if you don’t want to, and also, how horrible would it be to marry someone you don’t want to marry just because you’re afraid?
Early on, as I saw my friends get married, I had this sense that I’m not just like everyone else who’s doing this same bullshit thing just to do it.
And in the meantime, there’s this push-and-pull of wanting to feel close to somebody while valuing your independence and personal space.
Did writing the book give you clearer feelings about marriage, or even about being single?
Because as many know—myself included—nothing can amplify any underlying feelings or insecurities you may have about the relationship like a wedding can.
How hard was it to dig back into those scenes and re-examine what was really going on in your head and in your heart? I took two months of book leave at the , and all I did for 10 to 12 hours every day was write and remember these stories.